Vanity Bubble

My consulting job exposes me to the whole spectrum of people out there. Thanks to my experience of growing up with a clinically depressed parent, I am able to almost "read" people because I am sensitive to subtle cues people send out about their inner-self. Most people carry this vanity bubble around them, some big, some small, they come in different shapes and colors, some came cameflouged, but everyone has one, but only manifest it differently(this is starting to sound like celestian prophecy). One of the most effective technique I have learned is to identify a person's vanity bubble as soon as possible and try to work around it, once burst, it can result in counter productive work relations. Personally I have no issue working with big-egoed people as long as they have integrity.

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